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I feel often we hear about women being objectified by their natural looks. But is there a rise in conversation about male height and penis size I think this is massively looked over and makes a lot of men feel inadequate but isn’t talked about as much as women’s looks are. I also think it’s on the rise how much it’s discussed and makes a lot of men feel inadequate when in reality they are normal.
 
Height is definitely discussed a lot by women. They all seem to want 6+ (not a problem for me) but I feel bad for my less fortunate brothers.
 
I feel often we hear about women being objectified by their natural looks. But is there a rise in conversation about male height and penis size I think this is massively looked over and makes a lot of men feel inadequate but isn’t talked about as much as women’s looks are. I also think it’s on the rise how much it’s discussed and makes a lot of men feel inadequate when in reality they are normal
Not sure i ever heard a woman talking about size on real life, not a woman issue.
I had a woman friend who was likely to be a size queen we were friends and talk in general and left hints of her preference to me.
On videos there are very few who state something with a measure tape but is still a preference.
 
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I grew up in Texas. My ideal man was 6'5" and wore tight jeans and cowboy boots. I was stupid then. Not saying that 6'5 and a Stetson isn't nice, but that's not my ideal now.

My ideal is somewhere around 5'10, sometimes quiet, and is the poster boy for this site. He's also reading is iPad in the corner right now.
 
I don't care about height. I live in New Mexico where average height for men is around 5'8". I'm 5'9". Most of the guys I've fucked are shorter than me.

Penis size bro don't get me started. I've explained enough times that I'm not a size queen. At all.
 
My partner and I discussed this....

Height is not particularly an issue unless they are short, for her less than 5'5''. However, penis size is important, because she does prefer men with bigger than average penis sizes. But more importantly more stamina = more penetration power.

That being said, it's more important to be well groomed. Lean and muscular is prefered to being pudgy. That's a turnoff for her.
 
I think one thing that’s not talked about is how the rest of your body composition affects your penis size Atleast how it’s perceived.

I’m 5’11 with a 7.5 incher, I’ve never been obese but I’ve been skinny fat before and depending on how the fat collects on your body it can by comparison make you look smaller too, I’ve never heard women openly discussing size in a way that’s objectifying to men but maybe height moreso, the six foot rule I suppose we can call it.

I feel before you even get to the bedroom it’s more important to be well groomed, as stated earlier in the thread generally speaking I think women tend to be quite flexible with size so long as it’s not on the very extremes, I’ve had a mixed bag in response to my size.

I feel it’s a bit of a male induced myth that the majority of women want a larger penis ALL the time, size queens are a lot rarer then we give credit
 
Not sure i ever heard a woman talking about size on real life, not a woman issue.
I had a woman friend who was likely to be a size queen we were friends and talk in general and left hints of her preference to me.
On videos there are very few who state something with a measure tape but is still a preference.
Many, many years ago when I was in my 20s, I use to frequent a sports bar where everyone knew each other. Once after an night of drinking I ended up at the apartment one of the lady's who frequented the bar. We were both drunk and she gets out a rule to measure me....I almost fell of the floor laughing so much! We've both gone our own ways, but I still kid her about it when we exchange Christmas cards...LOL
 
I don't care about height. I live in New Mexico where average height for men is around 5'8". I'm 5'9". Most of the guys I've fucked are shorter than me.

Penis size bro don't get me started. I've explained enough times that I'm not a size queen. At all.
NM, huh...I have ancestorial ties there.
 
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I grew up in Texas. My ideal man was 6'5" and wore tight jeans and cowboy boots. I was stupid then. Not saying that 6'5 and a Stetson isn't nice, but that's not my ideal now.

My ideal is somewhere around 5'10, sometimes quiet, and is the poster boy for this site. He's also reading is iPad in the corner right now.

Have you ever noticed how female politicians like Kristi Noem have borrowed that heretofore male image? Over at Outkick, conservative male sports fans with incipient erections watch Kristi in her cowboy hat and tight jeans parade around as they collectively hyperventilate.

Hmm, I'm trying to imagine what quiet 5'9" to 5'10" (musically inclined) male you are describing? ;)
 
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Maybe if we all could unlearn obsessing over shape and size we might actually get attracted to people for the right reasons. Maybe even stay with them for the right reasons. (He said...on the big penis website.)

Maybe being attracted to intelligent people or kind hearts is just as arbitrary in the big picture sense.
 
Maybe if we all could unlearn obsessing over shape and size we might actually get attracted to people for the right reasons. Maybe even stay with them for the right reasons. (He said...on the big penis website.)

Maybe being attracted to intelligent people or kind hearts is just as arbitrary in the big picture sense.
I’m afraid that’s not how attraction works mate, in an ideal world body wouldn’t matter at all.

Unfortunately we don’t make the rules
 
I’m afraid that’s not how attraction works mate, in an ideal world body wouldn’t matter at all.

Unfortunately we don’t make the rules
It's relevant. It's the first noticing of the brain, the first domino to fall. Which is a pretty big deal. I wouldn't be the fool to downplay it.

But a domino falling is only consequential in the chain of events it inspires.
 
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But is there a rise in conversation about male height and penis size I think this is massively looked over and makes a lot of men feel inadequate but isn’t talked about as much as women’s looks are. I also think it’s on the rise how much it’s discussed and makes a lot of men feel inadequate when in reality they are normal.
If there's a "rise in conversation" about penis size... But is being "massively looked over..." That means it's not a thing.

From all my time here at LPSG, I've not seen this conversation. IRL..? Jokingly at the bar with ladies about the hand/foot/penis size correlation... But only in fun.
 
I'm a 5'10" guy with a massive tool, but I might be one of the remaining singles of my entire group of friends. Exaggerated cock size really have turned away most of the potential partners in my case, which is quite understandable. My last lady was sadomasochistic and a size queen, who, as someone here has pointed out, is a rare thing, just as being too huge is also a pretty rare thing. Apart from her fetiche, she was very homey and quiet, and really pleasant to be with. I'm also a very chilled out guy, who prefers a quieter lifestyle. I'm also a gym rat, which also is a niche where some women don't like, buffed guys and so on.

From my point of view, all my friends who are now couples have found partners with similar heights. The tallest of them have found taller women. I don't recall any exception, except one of my brothers-in-law, who happens to be almost as short as one of my sisters, although he is seven years younger. My friends who were considerable high above average regarding cock size were also the ones who got fewer relationships (either casual or serious ones) in comparison to the ones within the average/large spectrum.

As my preference for women, they must look ... authentic (specially their smile), healthy (at least doing some physical activity daily), no smoking addiction, and the height, I should say that those who had wider hips, also coincidentally were taller than others, have had the best match, but I would prefer one that's marginally similar in height than myself, and also similar age (40s).