Pussy free crossroad?

Hey i have been in my relationship with my husband since i was 20 (26 now) and we ended this life style close to about 3 years ago after he I was caught stepping out on him.

We obviously had our share of problems at the time and I made the stupid decision to have an affair with a few men before he discovered what happened, i told him that I still loved him I just made a dumb mistake and we had a few awkward months of working through my infidelity. Sex got passionate again once he realised he could have lost me at that moment. One weekend we fought and i frustrated I mentioned that it’s very rare that he has ever made me come. We didn’t have sex for a while after that and to my surprise watching a movie (the voyeurs) he brought up if he thought i could have sex with someone without getting feelings evolved. I didn’t know how to answer this as it just felt odd after have an uncomfortable month, i could tell this was his was of talking further about my affair and said he would be okay if I decided to use a hall pass as long as he knew when and where and the main thing was safe.

I was shocked and it probably took me close to another few months before he brought it up again. I started flirting on bumble (stupid I know) but I ended up meeting someone who would become a friend with benefits. We would aim to make time for each other at least one every month but it’s hard to find time just with life.

In short the sex with my bull is amazing but sex with husband is underwhelming and feels like it’s about him.

He’s a cuck by definition but he’s never been present when meeting with my bull as we decided to keep it seperate.

I don’t have the heart to tell my husband I love him I’m not interested In sex with him due to his experiment and technique.

I read about “keeping your cuck pussy free” but I wouldn’t know the first step at approaching it or if he would understand when I’m at in life.

If anyone’s knows more about this lifestyle and how to approach it and whether it’s worth it.

Thanks, love this site
 
i hope someone responds. i had been pussy free for short periods of time. usually, because i did something to piss her off. she, eventually, moved back into the bedroom.
 
Hey i have been in my relationship with my husband since i was 20 (26 now) and we ended this life style close to about 3 years ago after he I was caught stepping out on him.

We obviously had our share of problems at the time and I made the stupid decision to have an affair with a few men before he discovered what happened, i told him that I still loved him I just made a dumb mistake and we had a few awkward months of working through my infidelity. Sex got passionate again once he realised he could have lost me at that moment. One weekend we fought and i frustrated I mentioned that it’s very rare that he has ever made me come. We didn’t have sex for a while after that and to my surprise watching a movie (the voyeurs) he brought up if he thought i could have sex with someone without getting feelings evolved. I didn’t know how to answer this as it just felt odd after have an uncomfortable month, i could tell this was his was of talking further about my affair and said he would be okay if I decided to use a hall pass as long as he knew when and where and the main thing was safe.

I was shocked and it probably took me close to another few months before he brought it up again. I started flirting on bumble (stupid I know) but I ended up meeting someone who would become a friend with benefits. We would aim to make time for each other at least one every month but it’s hard to find time just with life.

In short the sex with my bull is amazing but sex with husband is underwhelming and feels like it’s about him.

He’s a cuck by definition but he’s never been present when meeting with my bull as we decided to keep it seperate.

I don’t have the heart to tell my husband I love him I’m not interested In sex with him due to his experiment and technique.

I read about “keeping your cuck pussy free” but I wouldn’t know the first step at approaching it or if he would understand when I’m at in life.

If anyone’s knows more about this lifestyle and how to approach it and whether it’s worth it.

Thanks, love this site
You might feel him out about playing the deprivation/denial sex game with you. Many guys feel relieved to not have to try to perform above their capabilities to satisfy their partner.
Perhaps replace intercourse with mutual masturbation and oral sex.
 
Hey i have been in my relationship with my husband since i was 20 (26 now) and we ended this life style close to about 3 years ago after he I was caught stepping out on him.

We obviously had our share of problems at the time and I made the stupid decision to have an affair with a few men before he discovered what happened, i told him that I still loved him I just made a dumb mistake and we had a few awkward months of working through my infidelity. Sex got passionate again once he realised he could have lost me at that moment. One weekend we fought and i frustrated I mentioned that it’s very rare that he has ever made me come. We didn’t have sex for a while after that and to my surprise watching a movie (the voyeurs) he brought up if he thought i could have sex with someone without getting feelings evolved. I didn’t know how to answer this as it just felt odd after have an uncomfortable month, i could tell this was his was of talking further about my affair and said he would be okay if I decided to use a hall pass as long as he knew when and where and the main thing was safe.

I was shocked and it probably took me close to another few months before he brought it up again. I started flirting on bumble (stupid I know) but I ended up meeting someone who would become a friend with benefits. We would aim to make time for each other at least one every month but it’s hard to find time just with life.

In short the sex with my bull is amazing but sex with husband is underwhelming and feels like it’s about him.

He’s a cuck by definition but he’s never been present when meeting with my bull as we decided to keep it seperate.

I don’t have the heart to tell my husband I love him I’m not interested In sex with him due to his experiment and technique.

I read about “keeping your cuck pussy free” but I wouldn’t know the first step at approaching it or if he would understand when I’m at in life.

If anyone’s knows more about this lifestyle and how to approach it and whether it’s worth it.

Thanks, love this site
you probably could find tips from other pussy-free threads. most are men participating, but there are some woman posting.

good luck & i hope you find what you need. wish i could help, more.
 
How to turn hubby into a sub sissy-fem cd bimale cuckold in six weeks - 2024.

Ladies - you should have lots of lovers. You should be able to fuck any cock you want at any time you want then ride hubby face while you share the details. You want a better husband then turn your hubby into a submissive sissy-fem crossdresser bimale cuckold that craves pleasing you. Here is a plan to make this happen:

(1) When you ride his cock - put your finger in his mouth and tell him to suck - soon you will be telling him to suck your finger like a cock. You need to plan to suck his cock 4 to 7 times a week for 6 weeks. Suck his cock and finger his ass (have lube ready) - tell him if he want his cock to be sucked then expect to be fingered. After you suck him off be sure to give him a snowball kiss each time.

Every night - tell him to go get ready cause you want to suck his cock. He will have his cock and balls and ass nice and clean and his ass lubed. Then suck his cock while you finger his ass - talk smut to him - on your ass opens like a pussy - from now-on your ass will be a sissy-pussy. Then always talk about his sissy-pussy.

Make him admit that he likes you sucking his cock while you finger his sissy-pussy. Second week you can reach up and play with his tits while you suck his cock and tell him you are going to suck his tits like you suck a cock. Bounce your head on his tit when you suck his tit. Soon you will be telling him to suck your tit like a cock - make him fantasize about sucking your tit like a cock - then sucking a cock cause you told him to suck a cock.

Every night you suck his cock and finger his sissy-pussy - very soon you can tell his body will submit to you and his sissy-pussy will open for you - craving you to finger him like a pussy.

(2) snowball kisses: when you suck off his cock and you have cum in your mouth then kiss him and share some cum with him. Tell him if he likes his cock sucked then he better get used to tasting cum. Good training for him to get where he will take cum from you. Someday you may be sucking a cock in front of him and then share a snowball kiss. Good fantasy to make him think about you sucking a cock in front of him - soon he will be sucking a cock with you.

(3) After a week of you sucking his cock while you finger his sissy-pussy - his body will be craving you. Craving you to suck his cock and finger his sissy-pussy. His sissy-pussy will be responding like a pussy. Open for you - pushing himself to your finger - second week add more lube and add more fingers. Talk smut to him always. Oh you like a second finger in your sissy-pussy. Then add a third finger. Do you want me to use a dildo on your sissy-pussy - make him ask for it. Someday I am going to invite a man here with a big cock and have him fuck your sissy-pussy while I watch. He will agree to anything while you are sucking his cock with three fingers in his sissy-pussy. Yes you can use a toy on him on the third week but make him ask for it.

(4) While you suck his tits - make him talk to you - make him ask you to keep sucking his tits - males will do anything while you are stroking his cock and sucking his cock. I am going to suck your tits and make your tits larger - are you ok with this - just in three weeks your tits are alot larger now. Soon you will be wearing a bra to bed. Fourth week you know you control him - you can use breast pump or use a standard cock pump. Take the rubber off and put the hard plastic tub on his tits and pump up. You can do this on your tits also. You have to keep fingering his sissy-pussy everynight or if you want tease him that are not going to suck his cock tonight if he has not be a good gurl.

(5) By now you know you can control him and he will do most anything you say. Just tell him you laid out clothes on the bed for him to wear - panties bra sundress and 2in heels - need to be wide not to hurt his toes. That you expect him to wear a nitie to bed every night and panties. include bra if you wish. Time to do some make up also. You do like me sucking your cock every night - say it back to me - good gurl.

(6) you keep sucking his cock and fingering his sissy-pussy - soon you will be fucking him with a toy then a larger toy. Oh they have the very thin toys that pump up so it does not hurt at all - then go to be bigger toy. Tell him time to go shopping for a strapon cock cause you want to fuck him like a woman and you want him to feel like a woman being fucked.

(7) his sissy-pussy will respond like a pussy now - give him just a little more than he can handle then let him adjust to the size then push it in a little deeper - do that over and over to make him take more and more toy cock. Then go to a larger toy - make him ask for a larger toy - make him say yes he needs more cock. When you fuck him with a strapon - do you want him to enjoy it or do you want to make him hurt alittle?

(8) a pussy or a sissy-pussy can handle a bigger toy cock then a real cock or a strapon cock - when you are pushing against his body and pushing your strapon cock into his sissy-pussy --- it feels so real and so exciting and so wonderful.

Never just start with a strapon cock - like a woman - always work up to it. After you have fucked him about 30 times then you can tell him -- someday I am going to just bend you over - put some lube on your sissy-pussy and fuck you - make you take my strapon cock and more than you can handle without getting you loosen up -- you want that - make him say it back to you.

(9) it is exciting to think of hubby wearing a bra and panties and sundress and 2in heels to do the housework.

After six weeks of sucking his cock and fingering his sissy-pussy every night -- you will have him so hooked and willing to do anything you want. You can say - get naked and on your knees and lick my pussy till I cum and he will do it.

Let him know you want him to ask and beg to be fingered more and more and to be fucked more and more with a toy. That you want him to ask to be fucked by you with a strapon cock.

Remind him that he agreed to do anything you wanted to him and you promised him more and more sex and that his cock would be happier if he says yes to everything you want.

(10) Once you make him suck a cock and be fucked by a cock - he will want more and more cock but you need to push him to do it more and more --- he will not feel like he can ask for it like he can with you using a toy on him.

Make him feel safe and loved and make him ask for more cock - make him say that he likes sucking cocks and that he likes being fucked like a woman. That he likes cum in his mouth and in his sissy-pussy.

Do you want him to suck cocks for you and take cocks in his sissy-pussy??? Do you want to be able to fuck any cock you want 1on1 or 3way? Then have hubby lick your pussy clean while you share the details with him.

The key wording now is - hubby you understand you need to follow my orders to get your cock sucked.

I am Robbie in Norman, Oklahoma - I have photos on my profile page on fetlife - email me your past sex and kinky fantasies to robbiewillsucku at gm ail -- I also chat on google-chat.
 
How to turn hubby into a sub sissy-fem cd bimale cuckold in six weeks - 2024.

Ladies - you should have lots of lovers. You should be able to fuck any cock you want at any time you want then ride hubby face while you share the details. You want a better husband then turn your hubby into a submissive sissy-fem crossdresser bimale cuckold that craves pleasing you. Here is a plan to make this happen:

(1) When you ride his cock - put your finger in his mouth and tell him to suck - soon you will be telling him to suck your finger like a cock. You need to plan to suck his cock 4 to 7 times a week for 6 weeks. Suck his cock and finger his ass (have lube ready) - tell him if he want his cock to be sucked then expect to be fingered. After you suck him off be sure to give him a snowball kiss each time.

Every night - tell him to go get ready cause you want to suck his cock. He will have his cock and balls and ass nice and clean and his ass lubed. Then suck his cock while you finger his ass - talk smut to him - on your ass opens like a pussy - from now-on your ass will be a sissy-pussy. Then always talk about his sissy-pussy.

Make him admit that he likes you sucking his cock while you finger his sissy-pussy. Second week you can reach up and play with his tits while you suck his cock and tell him you are going to suck his tits like you suck a cock. Bounce your head on his tit when you suck his tit. Soon you will be telling him to suck your tit like a cock - make him fantasize about sucking your tit like a cock - then sucking a cock cause you told him to suck a cock.

Every night you suck his cock and finger his sissy-pussy - very soon you can tell his body will submit to you and his sissy-pussy will open for you - craving you to finger him like a pussy.

(2) snowball kisses: when you suck off his cock and you have cum in your mouth then kiss him and share some cum with him. Tell him if he likes his cock sucked then he better get used to tasting cum. Good training for him to get where he will take cum from you. Someday you may be sucking a cock in front of him and then share a snowball kiss. Good fantasy to make him think about you sucking a cock in front of him - soon he will be sucking a cock with you.

(3) After a week of you sucking his cock while you finger his sissy-pussy - his body will be craving you. Craving you to suck his cock and finger his sissy-pussy. His sissy-pussy will be responding like a pussy. Open for you - pushing himself to your finger - second week add more lube and add more fingers. Talk smut to him always. Oh you like a second finger in your sissy-pussy. Then add a third finger. Do you want me to use a dildo on your sissy-pussy - make him ask for it. Someday I am going to invite a man here with a big cock and have him fuck your sissy-pussy while I watch. He will agree to anything while you are sucking his cock with three fingers in his sissy-pussy. Yes you can use a toy on him on the third week but make him ask for it.

(4) While you suck his tits - make him talk to you - make him ask you to keep sucking his tits - males will do anything while you are stroking his cock and sucking his cock. I am going to suck your tits and make your tits larger - are you ok with this - just in three weeks your tits are alot larger now. Soon you will be wearing a bra to bed. Fourth week you know you control him - you can use breast pump or use a standard cock pump. Take the rubber off and put the hard plastic tub on his tits and pump up. You can do this on your tits also. You have to keep fingering his sissy-pussy everynight or if you want tease him that are not going to suck his cock tonight if he has not be a good gurl.

(5) By now you know you can control him and he will do most anything you say. Just tell him you laid out clothes on the bed for him to wear - panties bra sundress and 2in heels - need to be wide not to hurt his toes. That you expect him to wear a nitie to bed every night and panties. include bra if you wish. Time to do some make up also. You do like me sucking your cock every night - say it back to me - good gurl.

(6) you keep sucking his cock and fingering his sissy-pussy - soon you will be fucking him with a toy then a larger toy. Oh they have the very thin toys that pump up so it does not hurt at all - then go to be bigger toy. Tell him time to go shopping for a strapon cock cause you want to fuck him like a woman and you want him to feel like a woman being fucked.

(7) his sissy-pussy will respond like a pussy now - give him just a little more than he can handle then let him adjust to the size then push it in a little deeper - do that over and over to make him take more and more toy cock. Then go to a larger toy - make him ask for a larger toy - make him say yes he needs more cock. When you fuck him with a strapon - do you want him to enjoy it or do you want to make him hurt alittle?

(8) a pussy or a sissy-pussy can handle a bigger toy cock then a real cock or a strapon cock - when you are pushing against his body and pushing your strapon cock into his sissy-pussy --- it feels so real and so exciting and so wonderful.

Never just start with a strapon cock - like a woman - always work up to it. After you have fucked him about 30 times then you can tell him -- someday I am going to just bend you over - put some lube on your sissy-pussy and fuck you - make you take my strapon cock and more than you can handle without getting you loosen up -- you want that - make him say it back to you.

(9) it is exciting to think of hubby wearing a bra and panties and sundress and 2in heels to do the housework.

After six weeks of sucking his cock and fingering his sissy-pussy every night -- you will have him so hooked and willing to do anything you want. You can say - get naked and on your knees and lick my pussy till I cum and he will do it.

Let him know you want him to ask and beg to be fingered more and more and to be fucked more and more with a toy. That you want him to ask to be fucked by you with a strapon cock.

Remind him that he agreed to do anything you wanted to him and you promised him more and more sex and that his cock would be happier if he says yes to everything you want.

(10) Once you make him suck a cock and be fucked by a cock - he will want more and more cock but you need to push him to do it more and more --- he will not feel like he can ask for it like he can with you using a toy on him.

Make him feel safe and loved and make him ask for more cock - make him say that he likes sucking cocks and that he likes being fucked like a woman. That he likes cum in his mouth and in his sissy-pussy.

Do you want him to suck cocks for you and take cocks in his sissy-pussy??? Do you want to be able to fuck any cock you want 1on1 or 3way? Then have hubby lick your pussy clean while you share the details with him.

The key wording now is - hubby you understand you need to follow my orders to get your cock sucked.

I am Robbie in Norman, Oklahoma - I have photos on my profile page on fetlife - email me your past sex and kinky fantasies to robbiewillsucku at gm ail -- I also chat on google-chat.
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Hey i have been in my relationship with my husband since i was 20 (26 now) and we ended this life style close to about 3 years ago after he I was caught stepping out on him.

We obviously had our share of problems at the time and I made the stupid decision to have an affair with a few men before he discovered what happened, i told him that I still loved him I just made a dumb mistake and we had a few awkward months of working through my infidelity. Sex got passionate again once he realised he could have lost me at that moment. One weekend we fought and i frustrated I mentioned that it’s very rare that he has ever made me come. We didn’t have sex for a while after that and to my surprise watching a movie (the voyeurs) he brought up if he thought i could have sex with someone without getting feelings evolved. I didn’t know how to answer this as it just felt odd after have an uncomfortable month, i could tell this was his was of talking further about my affair and said he would be okay if I decided to use a hall pass as long as he knew when and where and the main thing was safe.

I was shocked and it probably took me close to another few months before he brought it up again. I started flirting on bumble (stupid I know) but I ended up meeting someone who would become a friend with benefits. We would aim to make time for each other at least one every month but it’s hard to find time just with life.

In short the sex with my bull is amazing but sex with husband is underwhelming and feels like it’s about him.

He’s a cuck by definition but he’s never been present when meeting with my bull as we decided to keep it seperate.

I don’t have the heart to tell my husband I love him I’m not interested In sex with him due to his experiment and technique.

I read about “keeping your cuck pussy free” but I wouldn’t know the first step at approaching it or if he would understand when I’m at in life.

If anyone’s knows more about this lifestyle and how to approach it and whether it’s worth it.

Thanks, love this site
ive been a pussy free cuck for 7 yrs and I love the psycological aspect of it. I'd say dont throw that at him all at once though. Step by step. Start out by making him watch and after words let him slide in you while telling him how much better your bulls cock is. As hes fucking you say things like make that little dick cum baby. After a few weeks tell him you want to cage his dick so he can only cum when you want him to. Then let him out every few weeks but give him a time limit of like 3 to 5 minutes to cum in u before u push him off and lock him back up. Then after awhile when u unlock him make him stroke himself while your biting his nipples and make him stroke himself til he cums while you call him a sissy while biting his nipples. When he cums lock him back up. Then lock him back up. Try to introduce the idea that you really want to see him suck dick. once you get him to do that for you tell him he is a sissy now and hes going to stay locked up and hes only sucking dick from now on. Turn him out
 
I have never really done the pussy free thing with my hubby. It was more like temporarily denied for a week or two. Never much longer than that. I still enjoyed sex with him. But I will admit some of those BBC's felt very good. Now a days as we are both older, its more like penis "unable" instead of denial. His still tries his best to please me. Its just not as often and when he does try, its not always successful. Erectile disfunction is a bitch.
 
You are going to get a lot of advice from lots of people here who don’t have any experience. Let me give you something maybe a little better. There might be other ways but I think the best way is to start talking about him watching you with your bull. It will be easy if you just make videos of your sex with him and then let your husband watch the videos. You can talk to a man about something for a decade and he won’t understand it as well as he would watching it for 10 minutes. Men are visual and we understand by watching. You show me how to do something and I can understand it 10 times better than your explanation. When he sees how great the sex is between you and your bull and that you have wonderful orgasms with him that your husband could never give you then you will be on the fast track to your husband offering to be pussy free. Trust me.
 
Hey i have been in my relationship with my husband since i was 20 (26 now) and we ended this life style close to about 3 years ago after he I was caught stepping out on him.

We obviously had our share of problems at the time and I made the stupid decision to have an affair with a few men before he discovered what happened, i told him that I still loved him I just made a dumb mistake and we had a few awkward months of working through my infidelity. Sex got passionate again once he realised he could have lost me at that moment. One weekend we fought and i frustrated I mentioned that it’s very rare that he has ever made me come. We didn’t have sex for a while after that and to my surprise watching a movie (the voyeurs) he brought up if he thought i could have sex with someone without getting feelings evolved. I didn’t know how to answer this as it just felt odd after have an uncomfortable month, i could tell this was his was of talking further about my affair and said he would be okay if I decided to use a hall pass as long as he knew when and where and the main thing was safe.

I was shocked and it probably took me close to another few months before he brought it up again. I started flirting on bumble (stupid I know) but I ended up meeting someone who would become a friend with benefits. We would aim to make time for each other at least one every month but it’s hard to find time just with life.

In short the sex with my bull is amazing but sex with husband is underwhelming and feels like it’s about him.

He’s a cuck by definition but he’s never been present when meeting with my bull as we decided to keep it seperate.

I don’t have the heart to tell my husband I love him I’m not interested In sex with him due to his experiment and technique.

I read about “keeping your cuck pussy free” but I wouldn’t know the first step at approaching it or if he would understand when I’m at in life.

If anyone’s knows more about this lifestyle and how to approach it and whether it’s worth it.

Thanks, love this site
The responses to your issue are like some people treat it like a Actual UFO sighting while others are thinking of a Sci Fi Movie . First of all FIX your relationship decide if you love and want to be with each other . Cuckolding and cheating are two different things . Cheating is dishonest . So once you improve your trust communicate WITH HIM and not a bunch of men wanking off to your lifestyle . We are pussy free because I cannot please her during intercourse and because I crave to be submissive to her. If pussy free becomes a turn on it will work but if he needs that type of intimacy you will never make it work and he will never trust you . Is he a Sub or Beta male ? If not pussy free will only work temporarily . If you asked my ladies Bull to go pussy free he would probably put his hand through a wall . LOL . And I bet he cannot imagine what type man I am . To most human males intercourse to a form of ownership . Good Luck
 
I think white males are accepting their wives and gf's are into having sex with black men, tell him to embrace it and introduce him to wearing a chastity cage. Its very erotic!!
The chastity cage is an amazing tool that can transform a willing cuckold hubby into a constantly horny completely eager and willing partner! They can be so fun especially after a few weeks into a denial period!
 
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